Have you ever wished your family was like theirs? You know the one. They come into church smiling and seemingly all together. Pressed khaki’s, button down shirt, perfectly parted hair. Their kids come in holding hands and laughing. You are asking yourself, “How do they do it”?
Maybe you have flashbacks to earlier that morning to your kids fighting and your spouse not moving as fast you would like. They seem to be in their own little world and oblivious to the obvious need you have for help. Arguments ensue in the car, and you just remembered you left the baby’s diaper bag at home.
It is clear that you are going to be late…again. You pull in the parking lot…time for game face. It’s show time!
The pressure in our culture (especially church culture) to manage our appearances is huge!
We have come to believe this lie that if we don’t have it altogether (spiritually or otherwise), that it somehow reflects on God’s character and reputation.
Individuals and families crumble under this kind of unhealthy pressure, and it promotes environments of secrecy, dishonesty, and mask wearing.
Over the next few weeks, we are going to give you, our HopeQuest family, some quick and easy tools to enhance your friend and family relationships. These are going to be some of the simple skills families use at our Friends and Family seminars. They are simple, and can be used right away!
Do you have any “perfect family’ stories you’d like to share? Reach out to us on Facebook and Twitter. We’d love to hear your story. It helps to know when you aren’t alone!