Some women are truly blown away by the discovery of their husband’s struggle. They may have felt a little disconnected from him or had some conflict in the past, but the idea has never crossed their minds that he is struggling sexually. Usually in … [Read more...]

Trust me on this one. (We’ll look at God’s perspective at the end of the day.) It is very necessary for you to take a good long look at the painful stuff in order to remain in truth and walk with integrity on this journey. The opposite of … [Read more...]

It’s important for you to know that you cannot speed up the grieving process. The losses you have experienced are very real, and your wounds will need time to fully heal. Think of it in terms of an injury. Your brother has disobeyed and in the … [Read more...]

Everyone’s grieving process is different because we are all different. Some women feel a great deal of pain and loss initially while others are consumed with anger and have trouble feeling sorrow. No matter how you are wired, though, you will need to … [Read more...]

Grieving stinks. Any way you look at it, mourning the loss of dreams and trust and the faithfulness of your husband and whatever else you have lost, is not fun... we talked about the need to grieve in order to heal. If you have committed yourself to … [Read more...]