The more you grow in your relationship with Christ, the more you will be able to respond to your husband with truth and grace. You will still feel all of the pain his sinful choices bring into your life, but you will find an incredible reservoir of peace and love and strength within your heart that carries you through the darkest of days.
I hope that gives you hope for the days to come. Let’s talk a little bit about the here and now for a moment. As you begin this journey your situation may be incredibly challenging… As you relate to your husband, it is very important to do so from a position of spiritual and emotional safety… The one thing that will keep you sane on the bad days is turning your attention toward the Father and meditating on His goodness and His love for you.
–Melissa Haas, The Journey: Book One